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wiccan question (yet again) pregnancy and Confirmation sponsors vs. mediums/psychic	Bec	Saturday, January 24, 2009
Question: Hi Brother! I wrote you back in Aug 08 about a friend of my husbands thats wiccan. I need some more advice. I destroyed the satchel and basket of wiccan things as you said, and I felt a certain release after that (just my imagination or was that real?). my hubby found out the fate of the satchel and that didnt go over well at all. months later we had a huge blow up and he stayed at the wiccan womans house. he told her what happened to the satchel bc she wanted to add stuff to it and she was mad!(apparently she had a bunch of her wiccan friends come over and make it for him before he want to iraq and it took them a few days to do it. does length of their practices mean anything as far as what theyve done to the contents?). there was old stuff from her mother (also wiccan along with her whole family line!) that was destroyed...anyways, she made him a second satchel! i poured holy relic oil over it and blessed salt and I sprinkle it with holy water. he got mad at me b/c i sprinkled it. sometimes i think if i destroyed this second one divorce would be next! he carries it around with him always. theres more stuff in my house from the wiccans house tht i want to destroy but im wary to bc my hubby thinks Im part of the Spanish Inquisition and off my rocker. i dont know what to do! the wiccan forgave me, and were on good terms, tho ive been to her house and eaten there...(I know you said not to, but I dont know how to get out of this whole pickle jar!). i also just found out that Im pregnant and I dont want my child exposed to the occult. I just dont know how to get away "peacefully" and my husband doesnt ever understand what I tell him and bc she means so much to him. the next issue is Im being Confirmed (and becoming a Dominican Tertiary!!:)) and i had chosen my aunt and uncle to be my sponsors,but theyre recently in to going to mediums/psychics BIG time(my whole family makes me NUTS over it!!). ive told them not to and why but they dont listen. i cant in honesty stand before God with sponsors who themselves arent following what our faith believes! though, I am starting to feel that part of my mission in life particulary as a Dominican Catholic is to fight more specifically against the occult. Its rampant around me/us like weeds! please help! Thanks! bec:)
Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OLSM Dear Bec: I am sorry to hear about all this going on. You have some tough decisions to make. Frankly, since your husband wants to be involved in witchcraft and apparently has no interest in repenting of that sin, you may need to leave him regardless of whether or not it is peaceful. You and your child are in harms way as long as you are with him. In my view, I think you ought to tell him that you will leave and not come back until he gives up his witchcraft. Then leave. You cannot give an empty warning. You must say this then actually leave. If he repents of all this nonsense then and only then should you come back. I know this is particular difficult when you are pregnant, but maybe your parents and friends can help you out and give you support. As far as the witch, the situation is easily resolved. Say NO. Given the situation a witch may place a hex or spell upon you through the consumption of food. Also, going to her house gives her a greater possibility of getting a strand of hair from you or other items to use in spell casting. You MUST protect yourself. Say NO. If she gets all upset and insulted, so what? And now you must protect your child. You do not want your child in a witchy environment. Once you leave be sure to pray the Hedge Prayers of Protection and also the Breaking Spells and Curses prayer on a regular basis. And also pray for your husband's repentance. As for your question on your Confirmation, sponsors are suppose to be Catholics in good standing. It sounds like you need to find someone else to be your sponsor. If you do not know anyone then as the Priest to suggest someone. Again, you cannot worry about hurting the feelings of your aunt and uncle, or anyone else for that matter. These things are important and need to be done with care. We will be praying for you. God Bless, Bro. Ignatius Mary For information on how to receive help see our Help page. We suggest that before contacting us directly for help you try the Seven Steps to Self-Deliverance. These self-help steps will often resolve the problem. Also our Spiritual Warfare Prayer Catalog contains many prayers that may be helpful. If needed you can ask for a Personal Consultation.

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wiccan question (yet again) pregnancy and Confirmation sponsors vs. mediums/psychic

Bec

Saturday, January 24, 2009

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Hi Brother! I wrote you back in Aug 08 about a friend of my husbands thats wiccan. I need some more advice.

I destroyed the satchel and basket of wiccan things as you said, and I felt a certain release after that (just my imagination or was that real?). my hubby found out the fate of the satchel and that didnt go over well at all. months later we had a huge blow up and he stayed at the wiccan womans house. he told her what happened to the satchel bc she wanted to add stuff to it and she was mad!(apparently she had a bunch of her wiccan friends come over and make it for him before he want to iraq and it took them a few days to do it. does length of their practices mean anything as far as what theyve done to the contents?).

there was old stuff from her mother (also wiccan along with her whole family line!) that was destroyed...anyways, she made him a second satchel! i poured holy relic oil over it and blessed salt and I sprinkle it with holy water. he got mad at me b/c i sprinkled it. sometimes i think if i destroyed this second one divorce would be next! he carries it around with him always. theres more stuff in my house from the wiccans house tht i want to destroy but im wary to bc my hubby thinks Im part of the Spanish Inquisition and off my rocker. i dont know what to do! the wiccan forgave me, and were on good terms, tho ive been to her house and eaten there...(I know you said not to, but I dont know how to get out of this whole pickle jar!).

i also just found out that Im pregnant and I dont want my child exposed to the occult. I just dont know how to get away "peacefully" and my husband doesnt ever understand what I tell him and bc she means so much to him.

the next issue is Im being Confirmed (and becoming a Dominican Tertiary!!:)) and i had chosen my aunt and uncle to be my sponsors,but theyre recently in to going to mediums/psychics BIG time(my whole family makes me NUTS over it!!). ive told them not to and why but they dont listen. i cant in honesty stand before God with sponsors who themselves arent following what our faith believes! though, I am starting to feel that part of my mission in life particulary as a Dominican Catholic is to fight more specifically against the occult. Its rampant around me/us like weeds! please help!
Thanks!
bec:)

Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OLSM

Dear Bec:

I am sorry to hear about all this going on. You have some tough decisions to make. Frankly, since your husband wants to be involved in witchcraft and apparently has no interest in repenting of that sin, you may need to leave him regardless of whether or not it is peaceful. You and your child are in harms way as long as you are with him.

In my view, I think you ought to tell him that you will leave and not come back until he gives up his witchcraft. Then leave. You cannot give an empty warning. You must say this then actually leave. If he repents of all this nonsense then and only then should you come back.

I know this is particular difficult when you are pregnant, but maybe your parents and friends can help you out and give you support.

As far as the witch, the situation is easily resolved. Say NO. Given the situation a witch may place a hex or spell upon you through the consumption of food. Also, going to her house gives her a greater possibility of getting a strand of hair from you or other items to use in spell casting.

You MUST protect yourself. Say NO. If she gets all upset and insulted, so what? And now you must protect your child. You do not want your child in a witchy environment.

Once you leave be sure to pray the Hedge Prayers of Protection and also the Breaking Spells and Curses prayer on a regular basis. And also pray for your husband's repentance.

As for your question on your Confirmation, sponsors are suppose to be Catholics in good standing. It sounds like you need to find someone else to be your sponsor. If you do not know anyone then as the Priest to suggest someone. Again, you cannot worry about hurting the feelings of your aunt and uncle, or anyone else for that matter. These things are important and need to be done with care.

We will be praying for you.

God Bless,
Bro. Ignatius Mary

For information on how to receive help see our Help page. We suggest that before contacting us directly for help you try the Seven Steps to Self-Deliverance. These self-help steps will often resolve the problem. Also our Spiritual Warfare Prayer Catalog contains many prayers that may be helpful. If needed you can ask for a Personal Consultation.