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perplexed	Constance	Thursday, November 27, 2008
Question: Hello and God bless, I have written to you several times regarding my problem with a man I am in love with and who has been with a wicca for about seven years. I have been praying for him, for his family, me, my family. I disregarded his obvious interest in me for years. Then, one day I just fell for him and all the problems started. The things that happened before I fell in love that I can remember were: first, I sat in a bus behind this wicca and heard about her plan to destroy his family and finally him in the end in order to obtain material benefit. I did not know at the time who she was talking about (she was married to another man, and now she is divorced living most of the time with my friend), but I felt pain as if she had been talking about some very dear person to me. The others who heard this were outraged and one man turned to me and asked if I knew the person and I said NO but he insisted I MUST DO SOMETHING. I was worried sick but I really did not know who she was talking about. Then, years later I walked down the street and saw an obituary with the name of that man on it. I was not close to him and I wondered why I started sobbing as if I had lost the closest member of my family and I could not stop. I was shocked and asked God why I was crying over somebody I did not know. I just did not think of him at all, I just tried hard to recall somebody I know with that name and might be sick or in trouble but I could not. Months later we became close and I remembered that woman and that obituary!!! Was it a sign of God or...? It has been almost two years I have been praying. He is still with her and I dont know whether I have done enough. I must admit I love him, which is crazy. I have helped a lot to his niece. I am happy for that. I am so tired. Help me! (He is not catholic) I believe in your prayers. God bless
Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OLSM Dear Constance: I do not understand who this was you were crying over; your narrative is not clear to me. As for your "love" of this man -- that must stop. This man is obviously not someone to be in love with. It is possible that you have a love bondage, perhaps he even put a love spell on you, who knows, but this is not healthy. You need to renounce this love, perhaps pray the prayer to Break Spells and Curses and get on with your life. You should have nothing to do with this man, his family, or anyone around him. Put this behind you. Do not seek information about him such as who he is with, what he is doing, or anything else. Put him behind you. This is developing into a bondage and that will only cause you further problems. We will pray for you. God Bless, Bro. Ignatius Mary For information on how to receive help see our Help page. We suggest that before contacting us directly for help you try the Seven Steps to Self-Deliverance. These self-help steps will often resolve the problem. Also our Spiritual Warfare Prayer Catalog contains many prayers that may be helpful. If needed you can ask for a Personal Consultation.

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Constance

Thursday, November 27, 2008

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Hello and God bless, I have written to you several times regarding my problem with a man I am in love with and who has been with a wicca for about seven years. I have been praying for him, for his family, me, my family. I disregarded his obvious interest in me for years. Then, one day I just fell for him and all the problems started.

The things that happened before I fell in love that I can remember were: first, I sat in a bus behind this wicca and heard about her plan to destroy his family and finally him in the end in order to obtain material benefit. I did not know at the time who she was talking about (she was married to another man, and now she is divorced living most of the time with my friend), but I felt pain as if she had been talking about some very dear person to me. The others who heard this were outraged and one man turned to me and asked if I knew the person and I said NO but he insisted I MUST DO SOMETHING. I was worried sick but I really did not know who she was talking about. Then, years later I walked down the street and saw an obituary with the name of that man on it. I was not close to him and I wondered why I started sobbing as if I had lost the closest member of my family and I could not stop. I was shocked and asked God why I was crying over somebody I did not know. I just did not think of him at all, I just tried hard to recall somebody I know with that name and might be sick or in trouble but I could not.

Months later we became close and I remembered that woman and that obituary!!! Was it a sign of God or...? It has been almost two years I have been praying. He is still with her and I dont know whether I have done enough. I must admit I love him, which is crazy. I have helped a lot to his niece. I am happy for that. I am so tired. Help me! (He is not catholic) I believe in your prayers. God bless

Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OLSM

Dear Constance:

I do not understand who this was you were crying over; your narrative is not clear to me.

As for your "love" of this man -- that must stop. This man is obviously not someone to be in love with. It is possible that you have a love bondage, perhaps he even put a love spell on you, who knows, but this is not healthy.

You need to renounce this love, perhaps pray the prayer to Break Spells and Curses and get on with your life.

You should have nothing to do with this man, his family, or anyone around him. Put this behind you. Do not seek information about him such as who he is with, what he is doing, or anything else. Put him behind you.

This is developing into a bondage and that will only cause you further problems.

We will pray for you.

God Bless,
Bro. Ignatius Mary

For information on how to receive help see our Help page. We suggest that before contacting us directly for help you try the Seven Steps to Self-Deliverance. These self-help steps will often resolve the problem. Also our Spiritual Warfare Prayer Catalog contains many prayers that may be helpful. If needed you can ask for a Personal Consultation.