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husband attitude	Cassandra	Friday, April 4, 2008
Question: My husband has this car club and he has tons of friends and they are getting in the way of our marriage and his relationship he has with his daughter and me. I am tired of cursoring at him becasue it does not get us anywhere. I want him to stop being with him and he has this thing that he always has to answer the phone and is alwys on it and never pays attention to us. I am so tired of it I feel like giving up so bad but, there is something that it's going to be okay but, when we have been together for 6 years and nothing and our 4 year old daughter gets me so faustrated becasue she whines and complains for everything just like him. What should i do. I felt like doing witchcraft on him so that he can just listen to me and be a good husband he makes me feel like crap. I am really going crazy. I want him to ignore his freinds like forever and stop getting into people's business. And to save his marriage and his relationship with his daughter There are bad things to do to him but, I don't want to go that route I want you to help and change him god. Please. I love you god and I am tired and faustarted and that's becasue he is the older one in the relationship he's 30 and I am 23. What can I do what saint do I pray to help me change him. Just please respond to me fast. I am in desperate need. His name is Jessie and his daughter that also needs prayer is Aylissa and I am Cassandra that desperately need some prayer to be strong see how much more I can stand.
Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OLSM Dear Cassandra: Well, first Cassandra you must immediately STOP this thinking about witchcraft or other occult means to "make" you husband do what you want. THAT IS SIN FOR YOU TO DO THAT. STOP IT. Second, God does not force anyone to do anything. You cannot force your husband to change, and God will not force him to change. You can pray for him in hopes that your prayers will soften him up to be open to the Holy Spirit about your marriage, but you cannot "make him" stop his behavior. If your husband will not talk with you about your needs, then perhaps you need to see about talking to a marriage counselor yourself. There is a marriage counselor I can refer you to that will talk with you over the phone if you want. You must accept that the fact that we all, your husband included, are given free will. We cannot make others do what we want. We can pray, we can ask God to help the marriage, but even God will not force anyone to do anything. We will be in prayer for you and your marriage and family. You continue to prayer and STOP THIS THINKING about witchcraft and the like to force him. You risk your soul to hell if you do that. God Bless, Bro. Ignatius Mary For information on how to receive help see our Help page. We suggest that before contacting us directly for help you try the Seven Steps to Self-Deliverance. These self-help steps will often resolve the problem. Also our Spiritual Warfare Prayer Catalog contains many prayers that may be helpful. If needed you can ask for a Personal Consultation.

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Cassandra

Friday, April 4, 2008

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My husband has this car club and he has tons of friends and they are getting in the way of our marriage and his relationship he has with his daughter and me. I am tired of cursoring at him becasue it does not get us anywhere.

I want him to stop being with him and he has this thing that he always has to answer the phone and is alwys on it and never pays attention to us. I am so tired of it I feel like giving up so bad but, there is something that it's going to be okay but, when we have been together for 6 years and nothing and our 4 year old daughter gets me so faustrated becasue she whines and complains for everything just like him.

What should i do. I felt like doing witchcraft on him so that he can just listen to me and be a good husband he makes me feel like crap. I am really going crazy. I want him to ignore his freinds like forever and stop getting into people's business. And to save his marriage and his relationship with his daughter There are bad things to do to him but, I don't want to go that route I want you to help and change him god.

Please. I love you god and I am tired and faustarted and that's becasue he is the older one in the relationship he's 30 and I am 23. What can I do what saint do I pray to help me change him. Just please respond to me fast. I am in desperate need. His name is Jessie and his daughter that also needs prayer is Aylissa and I am Cassandra that desperately need some prayer to be strong see how much more I can stand.

Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OLSM

Dear Cassandra:

Well, first Cassandra you must immediately STOP this thinking about witchcraft or other occult means to "make" you husband do what you want. THAT IS SIN FOR YOU TO DO THAT. STOP IT.

Second, God does not force anyone to do anything. You cannot force your husband to change, and God will not force him to change.

You can pray for him in hopes that your prayers will soften him up to be open to the Holy Spirit about your marriage, but you cannot "make him" stop his behavior.

If your husband will not talk with you about your needs, then perhaps you need to see about talking to a marriage counselor yourself. There is a marriage counselor I can refer you to that will talk with you over the phone if you want.

You must accept that the fact that we all, your husband included, are given free will. We cannot make others do what we want. We can pray, we can ask God to help the marriage, but even God will not force anyone to do anything.

We will be in prayer for you and your marriage and family. You continue to prayer and STOP THIS THINKING about witchcraft and the like to force him. You risk your soul to hell if you do that.

God Bless,
Bro. Ignatius Mary

For information on how to receive help see our Help page. We suggest that before contacting us directly for help you try the Seven Steps to Self-Deliverance. These self-help steps will often resolve the problem. Also our Spiritual Warfare Prayer Catalog contains many prayers that may be helpful. If needed you can ask for a Personal Consultation.