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dreams Jane Sunday, August 21, 2016

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Hi

I am concern about this dream I had and the status of my emotional well being ot something happenkng to me.

I dream that I rang my fianccee at work. A job that he doesnt work in real life.
Anyway his mum answer the phone saying to me how I shouldnt ring him at work. She kept repeating herself so I said over the phone "stip repating yourself" in her response she said "F**k off" and hanged up. I was then accused by my fiancee for the causd of her telling me to "f**k off". But I told him that I thought she was talking to you not to me when I was on the phone to her.

After I woke up from the dream I had this thought "I wish that was true, so I can hate her even more"

Once I got out of bed and did my stuff during the day. I thought well thats not me why would I want to hate her more than I do now. It just cause me pain.

The reason why I dislike this woman is that she did not accept my engagment to his son. When I posted it on facebook we were engaged she didnt like it or even like any photos of us together. I felted very hurt. She also told me and her son she knows how to do voodoo. She been unkind to me and respectful towards me. She makes fun of my hair saying I look gay. Too when I told her that my sister's boyfriend left her she laughed at my face. Which was the werdist resction I have ever seen. She is known for being controlling over her sons. I mean my poor fiancee he told me when he was 7 he held a knife to his chest because his mum upsetted him so much.

So I withdrawn my distance from her since I dont want to be hurt by her anymore.

I guess Im asking for advice and also I am suspicous of her. Since she told me she knows how to do voodoo. Ever since Ive been with my fiancee for 7 years!! I keep losing my job due to discrimation. And it got to the point this is not laughing matter anymore. Plus mentally my anxiety worsen and gone for help too. I been unemployed since dec.

Thank you Godbless



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Dear Jane:

Dream interpretation is dicey at best. The best interpreter is oneself. What do you think this dream means?

Dreams are normally the brain's creative way to work out emotions, anxieties, fears, etc. of one's life. This dream is obviously about your feelings toward your future mother-in-law.

In the real world, the information you post is revealing. I think that it is wise to distance yourself from this person. If she does not like you and she is in to voodoo, it will be very difficult to be married to her son. I have to question why an engagement of seven years? The control the mother has over her son may portend difficulties for the remainder of your relationship with this man.

In terms of voodoo, I advise people to never allow a voodoo practitioner, especially one who is out to get you, into your house, never go to their house, never-but-never accept food or gifts from this person. How can one be married to a man whose mother is a voodoo practitioner and follow this advice? It is asking for trouble.

Frankly, Jane, my best advice is that you cancel the engagement and break with this man entirely. If you don't I think you could be in for a life of misery.

With that said, and on a spiritual basis, I would advise that you follow the Seven Steps to Self-Deliverance, linked below. Also look at the Spiritual Warfare Prayer Catalog, also linked below. In the prayer catalog I would specifically recommend the Personal Hedge Prayer of Protection, especially the Personal Breaking of Spells and Curses (which under the circumstance you may need to pray frequently), and the Rebuking Particular Spirits (to rebuke the demons that attack you). Plus, look at the other prayers and pray any that apply to you.

But, to marry into this family is like having to take anti-venom on a daily basis because you are living in a pit of rattlesnakes. It is best to avoid the pit in the first place than to try to live in such a situation.

God Bless,
Bro. Ignatius Mary  


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