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secondary infertility-jealousy of living ancester	Anna	Saturday, February 4, 2012
Question: My husband's mother, older sisters and grown up nieces were very uncomfortable when we had our first child 10 years ago. My mother in law even advised me not to have any more children. My child falls ill when these relatives are anywhere near. When I conceived next time, I lost my pregnancy in third trimester. Infertility followed. I find it impossible to get into a career although very educated. My husband's career advancement regressed from the time his family took notice that he was doing well (that was a few years ago). My husband's family members are very wealthy (they live in our home country) and do not need our help in any way. I believe there is something that blocks the channel of grace from God in our lives. The best I can do is to forgive from heart and stay away from jealous people. I request for your advice and prayers. Thank you very much for your time.
Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OMSM(r) Dear Anne: From what you are describing your husband's family is very toxic. It would do well to have no contact with them. It is possible that there is a family curse. I would advice that you and your husband first pray a Prayer Of Renunciation Of Ancestral Sins. Each of you need to pray that prayer to close the door to any demonic attachment to the family line. Then, I would advise your husband and you, with your husband leading the prayer, that you pray Breaking Household Curses and Spells perhaps your husband ought to pray for himself, Breaking Personal Curses and Spells. The breaking spells and curses prayer may need to be prayed often as the family could be casting curses on a regular basis. Then, you and your husband should pray regularly, Hedge Prayer for Protection of Household. If there are any particular demons that are harassing the household, the Rebuking Particular Spirits Affecting the Household is useful. If such harassment is to the person, then Rebuking Particular Spirits applies. All this is presuming that you and your husband are living the best Christian life you know how to live. Our Seven Steps to Self-Deliverance is good to help you with your Christian life, get rid of any "hooks" that demons may be using as an excuse to stay in your life, and finally to cast out those demons that are harassing your family. It is important, if your husband's family is that toxic, to sever the relationship with them. Keep in mind that doing so will likely caused them to be angry with you and your husband. Be prepared with these prayers I have mentioned and any others in our Prayer Catalog. If their anger is severe enough that they begin to harass, then you may have to change phone numbers and email addresses. If they show up at your door, do not let them in, and call the police, if necessary, to remove them from your property. I am not saying that things will be this bad. Hopefully, it nothing like this will happen, but I have seen this sort of thing before. Best to be prepared and resolute. God Bless, Bro. Ignatius Mary For information on how to receive help see our Help page. We suggest that before contacting us directly for help you try the Seven Steps to Self-Deliverance. These self-help steps will often resolve the problem. Also our Spiritual Warfare Prayer Catalog contains many prayers that may be helpful. If needed you can ask for a Personal Consultation.

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secondary infertility-jealousy of living ancester

Anna

Saturday, February 4, 2012

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My husband's mother, older sisters and grown up nieces were very uncomfortable when we had our first child 10 years ago. My mother in law even advised me not to have any more children. My child falls ill when these relatives are anywhere near. When I conceived next time, I lost my pregnancy in third trimester. Infertility followed.

I find it impossible to get into a career although very educated. My husband's career advancement regressed from the time his family took notice that he was doing well (that was a few years ago).

My husband's family members are very wealthy (they live in our home country) and do not need our help in any way.

I believe there is something that blocks the channel of grace from God in our lives. The best I can do is to forgive from heart and stay away from jealous people. I request for your advice and prayers. Thank you very much for your time.

Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OMSM(r)

Dear Anne:

From what you are describing your husband's family is very toxic. It would do well to have no contact with them.

It is possible that there is a family curse. I would advice that you and your husband first pray a Prayer Of Renunciation Of Ancestral Sins. Each of you need to pray that prayer to close the door to any demonic attachment to the family line.

Then, I would advise your husband and you, with your husband leading the prayer, that you pray Breaking Household Curses and Spells perhaps your husband ought to pray for himself, Breaking Personal Curses and Spells. The breaking spells and curses prayer may need to be prayed often as the family could be casting curses on a regular basis.

Then, you and your husband should pray regularly, Hedge Prayer for Protection of Household. If there are any particular demons that are harassing the household, the Rebuking Particular Spirits Affecting the Household is useful. If such harassment is to the person, then Rebuking Particular Spirits applies.

All this is presuming that you and your husband are living the best Christian life you know how to live. Our Seven Steps to Self-Deliverance is good to help you with your Christian life, get rid of any "hooks" that demons may be using as an excuse to stay in your life, and finally to cast out those demons that are harassing your family.

It is important, if your husband's family is that toxic, to sever the relationship with them. Keep in mind that doing so will likely caused them to be angry with you and your husband. Be prepared with these prayers I have mentioned and any others in our Prayer Catalog. If their anger is severe enough that they begin to harass, then you may have to change phone numbers and email addresses. If they show up at your door, do not let them in, and call the police, if necessary, to remove them from your property.

I am not saying that things will be this bad. Hopefully, it nothing like this will happen, but I have seen this sort of thing before. Best to be prepared and resolute.

God Bless,
Bro. Ignatius Mary

For information on how to receive help see our Help page. We suggest that before contacting us directly for help you try the Seven Steps to Self-Deliverance. These self-help steps will often resolve the problem. Also our Spiritual Warfare Prayer Catalog contains many prayers that may be helpful. If needed you can ask for a Personal Consultation.