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Celibate men giveing sex advice Joan Thursday, April 26, 2007

Question:

It seems to me that a group of celibate men giving advice on sexual morality is moronic. That would be like going to the dentest for your heart condition. The church dosent have a great track record in dealing with sex particlarly sex and womens issues. After all in the churchs perfect world women would just be brood mares and silent in church.

Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OLSM

Dear Joan:

I do not know what rock you have been living under, but the Catholic Church treats women better than any other institution. It was the Catholic Church, through the teaching of St. Paul, that raised the status of women to human being rather than the prevailing view of women as property. The Catholic Church, also through St. Paul, raised the dignity of women beyond that to that of spiritual equality with men.

The Catholic Church recognizes the dignity of women so much that it venerates a woman and the NUMBER ONE disciple of Jesus, the first among all people, the queen and mother of us all -- the Blessed Virgin Mary.

Pope Benedict just recently reflected on the importance of women in Church history:

.- The role of women in the history of the Church was the theme chosen by Benedict XVI for his catechesis at today's general audience, which was held in the Paul VI Hall in the presence of 20,000 people.  The Holy Father reflected on the thankfulness the Church should have for the countless “manifestations of the feminine ‘genius.’”

"Jesus chose 12 men as fathers of the new Israel, 'to be with Him and to be sent out to proclaim the message,'" said the Holy Father, "but ... among the disciples many women were also chosen. They played an active role within the context of Jesus mission.”

In the first place, the Pope began, “the Virgin Mary, who with her faith and her maternal care worked in a unique way for our redemption. Having become a disciple of her Son, ... she followed Him even to the foot of the cross where she received a maternal mission for all his disciples in all times."

After mentioning other women who appear in various parts of the Gospel - such as Susanna, and Lazarus' sisters Martha and Mary - the Pope pointed out that "the women, unlike the Twelve, did not abandon Jesus at the hour of His Passion. Outstanding among them was Mary Magdalene ... who was the first witness of the Resurrection and announced it to the others." Pope Benedict also recalled how St. Thomas Aquinas referred to Mary Magdalene as "the apostle of the apostles."

In the first Christian communities, Benedict XVI went on, "the female presence was anything but secondary." St. Paul "starts from the fundamental principle according to which among the baptized 'there is no longer Jew or Greek, there is no longer slave or free, there is no longer male and female.'"  Furthermore, "the Apostle admits that in the Christian community it is quite normal that there should be women who prophesy, in other words who pronounce openly under the influence of Holy Spirit for the edification of the community."

Therefore St. Paul's subsequent assertion that "women should be silent in the churches" must "be relativized," said the Pope, and he explained that "the problem ... of the relationship between these two apparently contradictory indications should be left to the exegetes."

"The history of Christianity would have developed quite differently without the generous contribution of many women," said the Pope and he recalled how John Paul II had written: "The Church gives thanks for each and every woman ... for all the manifestations of the feminine 'genius.'"

"We share this appreciation, giving thanks to the Lord because He leads His Church, generation after generation, indiscriminately using men and women who know how to bring their faith to fruition ... for the good of the entire body of the Church.”

In addition is the full Apostolic Letter by Pope John Paul II, On the Dignity and Vocation of Women

Anyone asserting that women have a raw deal in the Catholic Church is either ignorant or brainwashed by feminist reactionaries or other idiots.

This is not to say that individuals within the Church have not at times in history treated women less than they should, and certainly society has not always treated women well. Pope John Paul II mentions this in his Letter to Women in 1995.

The bottomline is that both women and men are given the dignity to be all the God intends them to be. There is no other organization or culture on the planet that does this as completely and properly as does the Catholic Church.

As for celibate men advising on sexual morality, one should remember that sexual morality was not invented by celibate men, it was invented by God. Those celibate men are only reporting what God has determined to be moral behavior. In addition, most Christian denominations agree with basic sexual moral theology. All those other denominations, however, have marred clergy. (Actually, the Catholic Church also has married clergy, too). But, this reveals that your comments have little intelligence but much prejudice and hatred.

We will certainly pray for your healing.

God Bless,
Bro. Ignatius Mary

 


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