Question Title | Posted By | Question Date |
---|---|---|
Sexual Morality | Michael | Tuesday, February 8, 2005 |
Question: A friend of mine criticized the Church for putting so much emphasis on sexual sins when violence is so rampant, saying that it is possible to engage in sexual activity for the sake of pleasure without hurting yourself or anyone else. I know this is contrary to Church teaching, but I wasn’t sure how to argue against it. I responded by saying that the purpose of sex is procreative, and sexual activity which isn’t procreative is contrary to the purpose of sex, to reproduce. She responded by saying that just because we use a God given faculty contrary to its purpose, does not necessarily make our actions wrong. I once heard that the reason sex is so pleasurable is because propagation of the species if the most important goal in an animal’s life. It only makes sense that God would make sexual intercourse so pleasurable since reproduction is how species keep from going extinct. If it weren’t pleasurable, animals would never reproduce and species would disappear. It makes sense that sex would be pleasurable because of the importance of procreation.
A musician, who sings to produce beautifully moving sounds, is using his voice contrary to its purpose, since it evolved to facilitate communication, not to make music. Are we using our legs for their original purpose when we dance? God gave us the sexual faculty, but he also gave us the faculty to pleasure ourselves whenever we want to, so why is this wrong? I want to make it clear that I fully accept the Church’s teachings, and I only ask these questions so that I can defend these teachings and understand them better. |
||
Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OLSM
Footer Notes: This forum is for general questions on the faith. See specific Topic Forums below: Spiritual Warfare, demons, the occult go to our Spiritul Warfare Q&S Forum. Liturgy Questions go to our Liturgy and Liturgical Law Q&A Forum Liturgy of the Hours (Divine Office) Questions go to our Divine Office Q&A Forum Defenfing the Faith Questions go to our Defending the Faith Q&A Forum Church History Questions go to our Church History Q&A Forum
|