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The question deep in my heart Ice Thursday, July 11, 2019


Hi me again,first is:today I feel very hony I went the internet watch a hentai page.

After I saw those two hentai pictures,i feels hot,attractive to me. So I start read the first one from the first page of it.I started masturbation when I started reading.when I watch the words they talk,i feel dirty and weak,and Very disgusting. I feel a bit panic.and I did't Masturbation.not finished. Is it a sin and how serious the crime is?did the god will pouch me hard? Please pry for me,because my personal life is very poor,the man who I love and who love me all gone,if he punishment me hard,i will doomed.

Next Question is for some reasons I know the China goverment put some aphrodisiac into foods,let all Chinese people eat,so are very hunger in sex,in city of China,on the street,the woman dress super less,you will not belive that they dress less than the man who in the porn videos,i feel strong feeling I need Masturbation everyday.I need to use a lot of power to restrain it.what could I do or what should I do ,what should the young man could do living in China,maybe truth is like they said ,The Communist Party is a variant of Satanism?where is the future?

Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OMSM(r), LTh, DD

Dear Ice:

Thank you for your question.

Watching any kind of pornography is grave sin. Masturbation is also grave sin. Thus, whenever you indulge in these things you need to confess it in the Sacrament of Confession.

God does not seek to punish you. God loves you and understands your struggles. God is reaching out to you to forgive you and to heal you.

Your part is that you need to avoid those things that lead you to these sins. I suggest you follow the Steps to a Pure Heart and Mind. If you follow these steps you should, in time, find some relief and healing. 

The struggle, however, will always be there, but I can say that the longer that we are chaste to easier it will be to stay chaste. We can never let out guard down, of course, but as time goes by is can become easier.

P.S. also check our Strategies for Healing section and generally look around our Site.

I do not know anything about what the Chinese government is doing, but the solution to your cravings is the same. Follow the Steps to a Pure Heart and Mind.

You can know that we are praying for you, we are here to help in any way we can.

God Bless,
Bro. Ignatius Mary

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