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Another Confession/Mortal Sin Question | Cody | Saturday, August 31, 2013 |
Question: Sorry to ask another one of these questions. I've tried to avoid it, but right now it will help me remain obedient to my confessor. I only feel comfortable asking him these questions inside the confessional. Since to remain obedient I must wait a couple of weeks this won't be an option. As a result, I could end up abstaining from the Eucharist, needlessly. |
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Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OMSM(r), CCL, LTh, DD, LNDC
Dear Cody: If you have doubts about your disposition to receive the Eucharist, then abstain from the Eucharist. That is okay. The Church only requires reception once a year. It is far better to abstain than to receive when not properly disposed. Cody, there is no such thing as "needed background information." In fact, explaining the circumstances of sin can sometimes be a sin in itself, the sin of pride. The circumstances are irrelevant as there is no excuse for sin no matter what the circumstance. Unless the priest asks for details, just list your sins by kind and number. That is all the Church requires. If you genuinely forget a sin, that sin is forgiven anyway when the the priest absolves you. If you remember it later, then mention is in a future confession. A traditional statement at the end of confessing the sins on your list is, "For these and all other sins that I do not now remember I am heartedly sorry..." The in no such thing as the priest being "offended" at the confession of some sin. This fear comes from the devil trying to get you to not confess the sin. Ignore that fear and confess whatever needs to be confessed. Even if one has committed every sin that exists, one's confession will last only 10 minutes at most, unless the priest has questions, since all we are required to do is to mention the kind of sin and the number of times committed. The confessional is not a time for psychological counseling. It is a time to confess your sins, so confess them without the backstory. You confession is valid as long has you confess all your sins that you remember at the time, and have proper contrition. A confession is not valid when you purposely refuse to confess some grave sin, or if you have no contrition. Thus, never allow fear or embarrassment to keep you from confessing some sin. Your imaginings that you speak of are not sinful. You seem to have worked out the solutions and came to proper conclusions. If you have thoughts that are intrusive, then rebuke those thoughts. We have a prayer called Controlling Thoughts and also one on Rebuking Particular Spirits (when thoughts may be inspired by demons). These are found in our Spiritual Warfare Prayer Catalog. I think that you are tending to scrupulosity (which is the religious form of obsessive compulsive tendencies). I would suggest finding a good spiritual director to help you sort out these things. God Bless,
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