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Modesty at Church Ryan Monday, October 31, 2011

Question:

When it comes to modesty, what liberties and/or obligation does a priest currently have under Canon Law and Church teaching to do things to prohibit the immodestly dressed from certain participation in Mass, or even from entering the church (like placing a sign outside the church for notification)? Is it possible for communion to be denied if someone is very clearly inappropriately dressed (i.e. extremely short shorts)?

I ask because my grandmother once told me that in the old days priests would skip you for communion if you even did as much as kneel on the communion rail with short sleeves - at least in the churches in which she attended Mass. And of course, I want to make sure that whatever I do if I am ordained to priesthood is in line with the Church, obedience to the bishop, and proper charity.

Again, God bless you for the indispensable work you do on this website. I'll see you at the Great White Throne Judgment when God honors you for these efforts :)



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Dear Ryan:

Well, it is still to be seen if I go on the up elevator at the Final Judgment.Wink

The Vatican has a dress code that is enforced by the Swiss Guard.

One blogger writes:

Leaders fear the casual styles that are increasingly appropriate for a night out on the town remain inappropriate for church in the morning. Moreover, the outfits can reveal a wrong attitude about worship.

“There’s this idea of ‘God accepts me how I am’… or ‘If it bothers you, you shouldn't’ be looking,’” said Wood. “But the way we prepare ourselves to celebrate the liturgy is the way we present ourselves to God. In the Catholic Church, and I think other churches would say this too, people aren’t looked at as being spectators but active participants in worship.”

Dressing appropriately shows mindfulness toward God, as well as respect for the sanctity of the service and the experience of fellow parishioners, Catholics say.

While the Vatican is well-known for posting signs prohibiting clothes that expose shoulders, knees or chests, on a parish-to-parish level, restrictions aren’t so clear-cut. It can be up to congregations to address modesty issues, if necessary.

The OSV mentioned bulletin inserts and messages from the pulpit serve as “friendly reminders” to keep a little more covered for Mass.

“It has come up at our liturgical workshops, and it’s not an issue priests are comfortable with. The style of dress that’s generally less acceptable for church is worn by women,” said Wood.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church speaks for itself on this issue:

Purity requires modesty, an integral part of the temperance. Modesty protects the intimate center of the person. It means refusing to unveil what should remain hidden. It is ordered to chastity to whose sensitivity it bears witness. It guides how one looks at others and behaves toward them in conformity with the dignity of persons and their solidarity.

Giuseppe Cardinal Siri, Archbishop of Geneo issued in 1960 a "Notification Concerning Men's Dress Worn by Woman

 G. Cardinal Larenti, Prefect of the Sacred Congregation for Religious issues a 1928 Letter to the Congregating for Religious on this subject.

Donato Cardinal Sbaretti, Prefect, Congregation of the Council, Rome, January 12, 1930 issued this 1930 Letter of the Congregation of the Council:

By virtue of the supreme apostolate which he wields over the Universal Church by Divine Will, our Most Holy Father Pope Pius XI has never ceased to inculcate, both verbally and by his writings, the words of St. Paul (1 Tim. xi,9-10), namely, “Women ... adorning themselves with modesty and sobriety ... and professing godliness with good works.”

Very often, when occasion arose, the same Supreme Pontiff condemned emphatically the immodest fashion of dress adopted by Catholic women and girls -- which fashion not only offends the dignity of women and against her adornment, but conduces to the temporal ruin of the women and girls, and, what is still worse, to their eternal ruin, miserably dragging down others in their fall. It is not surprising, therefore, that all Bishops and other ordinaries, as is the duty of ministers of Christ, should in their own dioceses have unanimously opposed their depraved licentiousness and promiscuity of manners, often bearing with fortitude the derision and mockery leveled against them for this cause.

Therefore this Sacred Council, which watches over the discipline of clergy and people, while cordially commending the action of the Venerable Bishops, most emphatically exhorts them to persevere in their attitude and increase their activities insofar as their strength permits, in order that this unwholesome disease be definitely uprooted from human society.

In order to facilitate the desired effect, this Sacred Congregation, by the mandate of the Most Holy Father, has decreed as follows:

Exhortation to Those in Authority

1. The parish priest, and especially the preacher, when occasion arises, should, according to the words of the Apostle Paul (2 Tim. iv, 2), insist, argue exhort and command that feminine garb be based on modesty and womanly ornament be a defense of virtue. Let them likewise admonish parents to cause their daughters to cease wearing indecorous dress.

2. Parents, conscious of their grave obligations toward the education, especially religious and moral, to their offspring, should see to it that their daughters are solidly instructed, from earliest childhood, in Christian doctrine; and they themselves should assiduously inculcate in their souls, by word and example, love for the virtues of modesty and chastity; and since their family should follow the example of the Holy Family, they must rule in such a manner that all its members, reared within the walls of the home, should find reason and incentive to love and preserve modesty.

3. Let parents keep their daughters away from public gymnastic games and contests; but if their daughters are compelled to attend such exhibitions, let them see that they are fully and modestly dressed. Let them never permit their daughters to don immodest garb.

4. Superioresses and teachers in schools for girls must do their utmost to instill love of modesty in the hearts of maidens confided to their care and urge them to dress modestly.

5. Said Superioresses and teachers must not receive in their colleges and schools immodestly dressed girls, and should not even make an exception in the case of mothers of pupils. If, after being admitted, girls persist in dressing immodestly, such pupils should be dismissed.

6. Nuns, in compliance with the Letter dated August 23, 1928, by the Sacred Congregation of Religious, must not receive in their colleges, schools, oratories or recreation grounds, or, if once admitted, tolerate girls who are not dressed with Christian modesty; said Nuns, in addition, should do their utmost so that love for holy chastity and Christian modesty may become deeply rooted in the hearts of their pupils.

7. It is desirable that pious organizations of women be founded, which by their counsel, example and propaganda should combat the wearing of apparel unsuited to Christian modesty, and should promote purity of customs and modesty of dress.

8. In the pious associations of women those who dress immodestly should not be admitted to membership; but if, perchance, they are received, and after having been admitted, fall again into their error, they should be dismissed forthwith.

9. Maidens and women dressed immodestly are to be debarred from Holy Communion and from acting as sponsors at the Sacraments of Baptism and Confirmation; further, if the offense be extreme, they may even be forbidden to enter the church.

 We must never forget who is culpable. St. John Chrysostom instructed women of all times about dress when in the fourth century he declared:

 You carry your snare everywhere and spread your nets in all places. You allege that you never invited others to sin. You did not, indeed, by your words, but you have done so by your dress and your deportment. ... When you have made another sin in his heart, how can you be innocent? Tell me, whom does this world condemn? Whom do judges punish? Those who drink poison or those who prepare it and administer the fatal potion? You have prepared the abominable cup, you have given the death dealing drink, and you are more criminal than are those who poison the body; you murder not the body but the soul. And it is not to enemies you do this, nor are you urged on by any imaginary necessity, nor provoked by injury, but out of foolish vanity and pride.

At Fatima, Our Lady has prophesied:

Certain fashions will be introduced that will offend Our Lord very much. ... More souls go to Hell because of sins of the flesh than for any other reason.

 

Several Popes have spoken out with authority on the subject of modesty. Pope Benedict XV (1914-1922) and his two successors, Popes Pius XI and Pius XII, have promoted modesty in dress. These are a few words of Pope Benedict XV:

"One cannot sufficiently deplore the blindness of so many women of every age and station. Made foolish by a desire to please, they do not see to what degree the indecency of their clothing shocks every honest man and offends God. Most of them would formerly have blushed for such apparel as for a grave fault against Christian modesty. Now it does not suffice to exhibit themselves on public thoroughfares; they do not fear to cross the threshold of churches, to assist at the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass, and even to bear the seducing food of shameful passions to the Holy Altar, where one receives the Heavenly Author of Purity."

On Catholic Mom's Blog is posted this from Bishop Antonio de Castro-Layer

"Those who keep the Law of God", Jacinta said, "should not follow fashions". Our priests must try to apply the instructions of the Sacred Congregation of the Council, without violence or rudeness, but with firmness. They must not let persons, dressed in the styles described above, receive the Sacraments and, as far as possible, must not allow them access to the Temple of God. Furthermore, they must frequently remind the faithful of these regulations. Also, when couples present themselves for marriage preparation, the priests must tell them to inform their wedding guests of the rules for dress in church. People dressed in these unacceptable ways must not be accepted as witnesses to the marriage and, after due warning, they must not be admitted to Holy Communion.

It is highly recommended that these prescriptions be posted at the entrance to the church.

Also posted by Catholic Mom is the modesty standard that St. Padre Pio enforced:

The saintly stigmatized Padre Pio was always a merciless enemy of feminine vanity: he never tolerated low-necked dresses, short and or tight fitting skirts, and forbade his spiritual children to wear transparent stockings. In the last few years of his life, his severity increased enormously, as fashions became more and more immodest.

He unrelentingly dismissed from his confessional, before they could step inside, all women he judged to be incorrectly dressed. By 1967, on some mornings, he turned them away one after another, until he ended up confessing very few. His brethren noticed this with a certain unease, then decided to post on the door of the church a warning: "By Padre Pio's explicit wish, women must enter the confessional wearing skirts AT LEAST 8 INCHES BELOW THE KNEE. It is forbidden to borrow longer dresses in church and to wear them to confession."

The beginning of the struggle with no concessions whatsoever coincided more or less with the advent of the mini-skirt, launched by the English girl Mary Quant. It had not yet reached Italy as Padre Pio was thundering against short skirts. As fashion houses announced: "Eight inches above the knee", Padre Pio warned: "Eight inches below the knee". May God Bless His Soul!!! Now That is a Priest that should be a role model for ALL Catholic Priests! We need more priests like Padre Pio.

And there is much more that I could post. This shows without question that the issue of modest dress is of concern to God and His Church.

To answer your question directly, priest do have a responsibility for the spiritual health of their flock. Quotes from Congregations above show that a priest has a responsibility to address this issue.

We need to pray for our priests to be healed of the fear of rocking the boat should he begin to enforce modesty in his flock as the Church and God demands.

God Bless,
Bro. Ignatius Mary

 

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