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Religious vs. Diocesan Ryan Friday, September 23, 2011

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Hello again Brother. As you know, I've been discerning the priesthood for a while now. As the discernment process matures more, I have realized that I am now never uncertain even in the slightest bit about priesthood itself, but that I am torn between whether I am called to be a religious or diocesan priest.

I have been studying the lives of people like St. Padre Pio, who along with St. John Vianney I find extremely inspirational as great examples of priests, and the nature of religious orders in general, and have been asking myself questions involving whether the diocesan priesthood is my destiny or not.

In short, I have started developing a kind of reverence and love for the evangelical counsels. And some part of me sometimes says that perhaps diocesan service might not be enough in my walk with Christ.

Everyday I feel increasingly compelled to eventually give up all ties to the secular world, including possessions and the like. But I also feel called to reach out to the secular world, to be "out on the street" so to speak, so I can reach out to those who have lost their faith, never knew faith, or are living a half-way Catholicism of sorts (usually because of bad catechesis or evangelism).

I would also like to add that my spiritual life has taken a kind of leap. Classically, I've been a relatively prideful person (manifested also sometimes in over-humility, which is actually not humility but a kind of pride) but ever since a newfound relationship with Christ, the Blessed Mother through the rosary (some days I prayed the four mysteries in succession as a sort of "Gospel rosary session," the best prayer experience of my life), the blessed sacrament, and the mass, life is completely different. I feel extremely spiritual in the sense that every moment becomes spiritual warfare to me, much influenced by the information shared by Marino Restrepo. I am trying to make sense out of all of these recent leanings.

Sometimes I have very detailed and intense inner experiences of heaven, or at least what heaven would be like. This also started only once I made a major shift in my spiritual life. And in those experiences I saw no struggle, anxiety, disobedience, or anything. Just widespread holy obedience, the love of God and His Son, and the communion of saints, and a perfect New Earth.

There was one day where I broke down deep inside because I had a sudden feeling of a realization of heaven, followed by a deep and somber sadness for those who might not perhaps make it there because of hatred or blasphemy, etc.

Do all these feelings tie into one another? Sorry if this question was long, but being experienced in spiritual warfare and religious life as you are, I am certain you have things to say.



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Dear Ryan:

It is a noble calling to religious life and the evangelical counsels. Religious life can have a more profound spirituality for a priest or for brother. The reason for this is a diocesan priest is very much in the world, usually overworked, with little time to pray, and with the day-to-day headaches of parishioners, committees, and administration. Many priests have told me that much of their day being a priest feels like nothing more than a job rather than a vocation. But those called to diocesan priesthood generally find it rewarding.

The religious priesthood can have some of the same concerns, depending on what the religious priest is assigned to do, but there is a firm grounding in prayer and in community that is very hard to find as a diocesan priest.

If your calling is moving in the direction of a firmer religious base but also a desire to reach out to people in the secular world, then you need to begin the checkout religious orders that allow that.

For example, Franciscan Friars are religious priests who reach out to the secular world. There is a difference between a monk and a Friar. A monk is usually a person who lives a stable life in a monastery. That monastery may be fully cloistered or there may be opportunities for the religious priest to go out in the world temporarily on missions and the like. A Friar is a priest or brother who works extensively reaching out to the secular world.

If you feel a calling to the religious priesthood then you need to begin to search for religious orders that allow their priests to have missions and assignments in the world. Visit those friaries or monasteries, spend some time with them, talk with their vocation directors, get a taste of what religious life is like. If you find one that seems to fit your calling then perhaps they will receive you as postulant. You do not give final vows for a number of years so there's plenty of time to discern whether God is really calling you to religious life are not.

As you began to look around and explore various religious orders and the possibilities there may be for you God will direct your path.

As always we will continue to pray for you and your vocation.

God Bless,
Bro. Ignatius Mary


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