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Start asking then stop | Susi | Monday, October 18, 2010 |
Question: Hello Bro. Ignatius Mary, It is some kind of abandonment prayer? I'm a real catholic (go to mass, confesion, pray the rosary ever day, I'm catechist at my church). I don't know if is because I've been praying for a particular thing a long time. I've been trying to hope in God and wait in Him and sometimes just don't want to ask anymore and only wait on His Divine Providence. It still comes to my mind Jesus saying the story of the Judge (Luke 18,1-8), the friend (Luke 11, 5-) or in Luke 11,9 13. But I can't find peace yet. |
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Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OMSM(r)
Dear Susi: Jesus said (Matthew 7:7-11):
Jesus also said, "And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive, if you have faith" (Matthew 21:22). St. James explains a little further, "You do not have, because you do not ask. You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly" (James 4:2b-3) God hears and answers all prayers. Sometimes his answers are not what we want. He can answer a prayer with, for example a "yes", or with "no", or "maybe", or with "not in your best interest", or "I can't". Let us take each of these possibilities in turn:
I have no idea what you are praying for, but generally speaking God's response usually falls into one of the five categories above. We should persevere in prayer. Prayers may not be granted right away. If God's answer #3 above you may need to fulfill your part first. If God's answer is #5, then you may have to wait until the person involved chooses to do that is necessary to fulfill the prayer (if ever). And, of course we must always accept a "no" answer. Ask your Heavenly Father, tell Him your needs. Do not stop in that. But, I would suggest that if you are tempted to anger because your prayers are not answered in the way you wish, then that itself can be a stumblingblock against your prayers. You need to learn abandonment and resignation to God will, whatever that will may be. I suggest you read and pray the prayers in a pamphlet we have called Christian Resignation as a Prerequisite to Freedom (pdf file). A prayer for the salvation of others or for a loved-one to return to Christ and His Church, for example, and other similar prayers that are open ended, that is, may continue until it is fulfilled, a person can and should persevere in prayer for their whole lives or until the prayer is fulfilled. That is what St. Monica did with her son, St. Augustine. If we are praying for a specific job, for example, we may not get that job. We must be open to what God does do for us. He may lead us to a different job. We must accept what comes. Once I helped this fella prepare his resume for an internship in the Clinton Whitehouse. He got the internship. Afterwards, he came back home and really wanted to get this particular job. He didn't get it. He was despondent, even suicidal. I told him that his resume was excellent, especially with the White House internship, and that he shouldn't have a problem getting some other position. I talked with him for a couple hours. He left and I did not hear from him for a long time. Then one day he comes by. He told me that my talk saved his life, and that he did indeed get another position that was just as good as the one he originally wanted. He may have prayed hard for one job, but God gave him another. In the long run the job he got was the better one. We need to keep our eyes open for the doors that God may open or shut. Sometimes the answer to our prayers is right in front of us, but because it is not what we expected we do not notice it. God Bless,
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