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Penis Enlargment
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Nick Monday, July 26, 2010

Question:

Are methods of penis enlargement a sin? Would it be considered a form of masturbation. I know in other places you have said masturbation is deliberately stimulating the genitals for sexual pleasure but this doesnt cause any sexual pleasure. and also the technique i am doing is calling jelqing. anyways sorry for the odd question but im sure you have gotten plenty of those.



Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OLSM

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WARNING!! This question and answer is of a mature nature. Parental discretion is advised.

Dear Nick:

The real question is why on earth would you want to do such a thing. Penis enlargement is a ridiculous thing and born out of the pornographic world we live in.

In the first place, if you are not married, no woman should see your privates, so what does it matter. When you do get married, and on your wedding night, if your wife cares about your size, then she is an idiot and cad.

In the second place, penis size does not matter, except to the perverted women who has been brainwashed to think that size matters. Such women are disgusting and not worth your time.

This disgust also goes for men who think that large breasts matters. Any husband who pressures his girlfriend or wife to mutilate herself with breast enlargement should be horse-whipped and run out of town on a rail.

The fact is that genital sexual arousal for women is primarily focused on the nerve endings at the entrance to her vagina. The nerve endings into the vaginal canal are few. Thus, size of the penis has little consequence. The other anatomy of arousal, and the most important, is the clitoris. Penis size again has little to do with it. Stimulating a woman's clitoris during intercourse is a matter of position and technique not size.

Relationships are not about sex. A relationship is about love. The size of the sexual parts of a man or woman are meaningless for those who love. The pleasure of the marital embrace is is not impeded by size. Love, intimacy, bonding, and children is the only reason for sex within marriage between a man and women.

Thus, there is no reason to try any technique of penis enlargement.

In the third place, you can hurt yourself, maybe seriously, by doing this.

In the fourth place, the technique requires partial erection (to deliberately cause that requires sexual arousal), thus this technique does include a form of masturbation.

Regardless, of the 4th point, the first two makes this whole idea moot.

I think you need to work on your self-esteem. Your manhood or manliness is not determined by the size of your genitals. Any woman who thinks otherwise is perverted and not worthy of your attention.

I am speaking with some hardness because you need to slapped to your senses.

Both men and woman need to accept what they are born with. The only exception to this statement that I can think of at the moment, is with women who have extraordinarily large breasts. This can actually be a medical problem and breast reduction surgery may be needed for medical reasons.

Give up this idea. It matters not if you are single anyway. And it matters not with your wife if she actually loves you.

God Bless,
Bro. Ignatius Mary

 

 


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