I really appreciate being able to read through these problems and find the right guidance under the authority of the Church especially in matters of intimacy which one is too embarrassed to ask elsewhere and therefore may be committing sin for the sake of embarrassment. Thank you for your care and godbless you in guiding so many towards the tight narrow path that leads to the wide open embrace of God. I will remember you in my prayers.

My question is of an intimate nature also unfortunately. My husband and I have spaced our children as 1) I had cesearian sections 2) we felt we could only cope with one at a time. (We wanted to be responsible parents) We are using NFP. When we are going through a fertile period and so abstaining from love making we desire to keep close with each other because we still love each other and want to grow in our relationship. Sometimes when love making I do not climax cause it is not as easy as you see in the films often I do because he is a caring husband but on the odd occasion I do not and he feels bad so he returns this, as he wants for me to be happy also, he will return this during periods when we are abstaining from intercourse. (Nothing happens at his end) Do you think this is ok? He is caring for me and my part within the relationship.