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ted kenndy | jonny the gent | Wednesday, September 2, 2009 |
Question: How can the bishop allow a man like this a funneral mass in a catholic chuch. This man belived that it is a womens chose to kill her baby. Is he not held at the same standed as some one who has no money. |
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Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OLSM
Dear Johnny: We need to be very careful in make judgments. Rash Judgment is a grave sin. Any Catholic who has died in a state of grace has the right to a funeral Mass. While Teddy Kennedy defied Catholic teaching during his life, he may have repented and reconciled with the Church on his death bed -- we do not know if he did, and we cannot know the man's heart. Cardinal O'Malley of Boston had this to say (excerpts from his blog):
No matter what Teddy Kennedy did in life, we cannot judge him in his death. Only God knows his heart. As for the Funeral Mass, if Teddy was absolved of his sin in the Sacrament of "Last Rites", which I am sure he was, then he has as much right to a Catholic Funeral Mass as anyone else. It is improper for us to suggest that he did not deserve this honor. In fact to say that he did not deserve this honor is the grave sin of rash judgment because we are jumping to conclusions about his state of soul at his death. For an opposing view I recommend the article by Father Tom Euteneuer, President of Human Life International. Fr. Euteneuer actually said, "[A] Catholic funeral for Kennedy is unjust to those who have actually paid the price of fidelity." As much as I respect Fr. Euteneuer I think is absolutely wrong that the Funeral Mass for Kennedy is a scandal and especially for the profoundly uncharitable and unscriptural sentiment that a funeral Mass for Kennedy is "unjust to those who have actually paid the price of fidelity." This is not what is taught in the Gospel. Jesus tells us of the parable of the laborers in the vineyard in Matthew 20:1-16:
Dare I say it? It seems to me that Father Euteneuer has taken a position of the grumblers in this parable. There are some people who will live 80 years as a reprobate and even as an enemy of God and His Church, who will be in heaven because they repented on their death beds. And, if they repent on their death, they have have a right to a Catholic Mass. I even know of a man who was a Satanist and put his young daughters through the horrors of Satanic ritual abuse and sexual abuse. His daughters forgave him and they were privileged to see their father repent and be reconciled with the Church on his death bed. I personally knew the daughters. The only unforgivable sin is the sin of refusing God's offer and grace of forgiveness. While Father Euteneuer's statement is true, "There was very little about Ted Kennedy’s life that deserves admiration from a spiritual or moral point of view. He was probably the worst example of a Catholic statesman that one can think of. When all is said and done, he has distorted the concept of what it means to be a Catholic in public life more than anyone else in leadership today," this fact does not mean that Teddy did not repent, receive the Sacraments and was reconciled with God and the Church on his death bed. We do not know, but our obligation is to give the benefit of the doubt and trust the pastors on this. As we all know as Catholics, our eternal destiny is determined by our state of soul at our death and not by our life's works. Now, Canon Law does provide to deny a funeral Mass to "other manifest sinners to whom a Church funeral could not be granted without public scandal to the faithful." Canon 1184 reads:
Although we do not know, and it is a rash judgment to say otherwise, Teddy Kennedy most probably did repent and was reconciled with the Church before his death. Now, before we jump on section 1.3 to declare that Kennedy is disqualified due to that section, we need to read section 2:
The local Ordinary judged that Teddy Kennedy was qualified for a Catholic Funeral Mass. We must respect that. Truly, where is the real scandal? That a man who was a lousy excuse of a Catholic received a Funeral Mass, or is it in Catholics expressing bitterness and grumbling because Kennedy got in by the skin of his teeth at the last moment? I think the real scandal is in the lack of forgiveness of those Catholics who are bitter about this. As the old saying goes, "What Would Jesus Do?" It Teddy asked for forgiveness would our Lord deny him forgiveness? Being reconciled to the Church would Jesus deny Kennedy a public Funeral Mass? I think this event is a test of our love and forgiveness. Do we really mean it when we say we love and forgive, even notorious sinners and enemies, as Jesus taught us? The evaluation of Teddy Kennedy's life in politics, personally, and as a Catholic will be a subject that can be discussed and written about for centuries to come. But, to say he did not deserve a funeral Mass, in my opinion, is not thinking with the mind of Christ. Now, with all that said, it is another topic altogether in terms what happened at this Funeral Mass. The Mass is not to be made a showcase for anyone. According to the rules of the Boston Archdiocese, "Following the prayer after Communion and before the Final Commendation, only one speaker, a member or a friend of the family, may speak for not more than five minutes in remembrance of the deceased." There is room for criticism of the Cardinal and pastors to allow the norms of a Funeral Mass to be violated, even by the diocese own rules. Here is the full text from the website of the Boston Archdiocese:
There are "other occasions" for speeches and eulogies, such as at the Wake. I hope this helps to see things in perspective. God Bless,
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