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Civil marraige of baptised Catholic | Geraldine | Wednesday, May 6, 2009 |
Question: Dear Brother, |
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Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OLSM
Dear Geraldine: I would suggest that a person who chooses to sin by marrying outside the Church, and thus risking their soul, should not be encouraged to marry in this way even tacitly. The Catechism states:
If this daughter chooses to sin, she needs to know that she is sinning gravely and one of the ways to let her know that is to not attend her wedding. That tells her just how serious this is that her family and friends will not attend. At the same time, one loves his daughter. Love demans truth and justice, but also mercy. Not attending the wedding tells the truth and applies Justice by not cooperating in the daughter's sin and thereby teaching her a consequence for her actions. Attending the reception, however, is mercy. I don't think there is a problem attending the reception as it is not in itself a sin, but that will be up to the conscience of the parents and friends. To attend the reception can keep the doors of communication open. Hopefully, in the future, the daughter will do the right thing and have her marriage blessed in the Church. God Bless, Footer Notes: This forum is for general questions on the faith. See specific Topic Forums below: Spiritual Warfare, demons, the occult go to our Spiritul Warfare Q&S Forum. Liturgy Questions go to our Liturgy and Liturgical Law Q&A Forum Liturgy of the Hours (Divine Office) Questions go to our Divine Office Q&A Forum Defenfing the Faith Questions go to our Defending the Faith Q&A Forum Church History Questions go to our Church History Q&A Forum
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