I thought I would get your opinion on this issue since I really trust you rudgment. At the sign of peace some Catholic Apologist say that we should all give each other a hand shake and that it is inappropriate to show preference to any of our loved ones by giving them a hug.

The GIRM simply says "As for the sign of peace to be given, the manner is to be established by Conferences of Bishops in accordance with the culture and customs of the peoples. It is, however, appropriate that each person offer the sign of peace only to those who are nearest and in a sober manner."

I know that many people go extra lenghts and walk up or down the isle to give a friend or relative a sign of peace which is inappropiate but nothing that I have found says that we must shake hands only. I always turn to my wife and give her a hug and a peck on the cheek, and a hug to my son. To those infront or behind me I extend my hand and give them a smile and a handshake. I feel quite odd giving my wife just a handshake. You opinion please.

Thanks and God Bless.