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Male ejaculation oraly when unable to penetrate
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Wayne Saturday, November 22, 2008

Question:

I am 70 years young and am unable to have an erection due to diabetes and other ailments but am able to ejaculate oraly. I have tried all the magic potions and to no avail. They used to work but no longer. I give, freely of oral sex to my wife and we feel the need to be as close as possible to each other but stop short of oral ejaculation. Again,ejaculation is not possible as I am unable to penetrate her. QUESTION! Are we allowed to bring me to oral ejaculation?



Question Answered by Bro. Ignatius Mary, OLSM

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WARNING!! This question and answer is of a mature nature. Parental discretion is advised.

Dear Wayne:

I understand your dilemma, but it is not morally permissible to ejaculate outside of your wife's vagina. Oral sex is permitted as long as the man does not ejaculate.

Intercourse (and ejaculation) are not the only forms of intimacy. A person in your situation, if no solution can be found, needs to focus on other forms of intimacy that does not include ejaculation.

We will be in prayer for you and your wife that you can find and be comfortable with some other form of intimacy. I praise God that you seek that which is morally permissible.

God Bless,
Bro. Ignatius Mary


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